Dulin on Track for Success in Life
By Rocco Geppi
Denzel Dulin was an easy going teenager who took everything in
stride; despite his life circumstances was recruited out of
preparatory school at 19-years-old to play basketball at CCBC Essex
by then head men’s coach Mike Francis.
Dulin, 21, was raised by his brother, during his high school years,
after the death of their mother from colon cancer. Anthony Dulin
became a parent to his younger brother, at age 27, with a
fiancé and not yet 1-year-old daughter.
His brother, now 33, does not regret having to take on such an
enormous responsibility.
“Denzel has always been a great kid,” Anthony said.
“He’s never given me any kind of problems. He always
listens; he always tries to do the right thing.”
Although separated by more than 10 years, the two brothers have
always been close.
“It’s a fun relationship, because that’s your
older brother, and then something like [our mother’s passing]
happens and the roles kind of change,” the younger Dulin
said. “I would say he did a great job as far as bringing me
up and making me into the man I am today.”
But what Denzel may not realize is that he too had a similar effect
on Anthony.
“Hearing that makes everything worth it,” said Anthony
Dulin of his brother’s comments. “But to be honest, I
can give him the same credit for making me the man I am as well. I
learned a lot just trying to do the best by him, and put him in
situations to be successful. I learned a lot about myself, I
learned a lot about sacrificing and responsibilities, just dealing
with that whole situation, both my wife and I.”
It would have been understandable if Denzel decided to act out in
school, shut down emotionally or check out on the court. But that
did not happen.
Even when the family moved to Georgia from Queens, N.Y. after
Denzel’s freshman year of high school, he did not balk.
He made varsity as a freshman at Forest Hills High School in Queens
and would do the same as a sophomore at a new school 879 miles from
home.
However, Anthony and his wife recognized that the move was not the
way to separate themselves from their loss.
The change of scenery lasted just one year before they returned to
the big apple.
Dulin again attended Forest Hills and played varsity basketball his
final two years of high school.
The following fall, he enrolled in Southern Tech Academy, a college
preparatory school in Charlotte, N.C.
He spent one year not only playing basketball, but becoming better
prepared for the transition to college.
Dulin’s college career began in the fall of 2012, when he
joined CCBC Essex. A few months later was playing basketball for
the Knights and learned valuable lessons during his time with
Francis.
“He was a great coach,” Dulin said of his first college
coach. “He definitely taught me a lot of things I
didn’t know about on the basketball court. Little things,
like he was impactful to make sure we were accountable as a
team.
“He brought a great energy to practices, so it was always a
great practice. Even on days I didn’t feel like practicing,
he would pick me up, because just his energy made you want to be
there.”
In his first year of college basketball, Dulin averaged 12 points
per game (38.2% shooting), 2.6 assists and made 62.2% of his free
throw attempts in 14 games.
Dulin also collected three rebounds per game, 14 steals and shot
27.7% on three pointers.
“I first saw Denzel as a high school sophomore,”
Francis said. “I was drawn to his ability to score. He was a
strong and tough kid that later developed a good jump shot as a
senior in high school.
“He never let his [mother’s death] affect him on the
court. That may be where his toughness came from; the basketball
court was his safe haven.”
The CCBC Essex men’s basketball program was dissolved at the
end of the 2012-2013 academic year, so Dulin transferred to CCBC
Dundalk to continue his education and basketball career.
There was no sophomore slump for Dulin, as he raised most of his
offensive statistics, earning in-season and postseason honors along
the way.
In 24 games, he averaged 18.4 points per game (48.5% shooting),
made 72.8% of his free throws, pulled down 4.4 rebounds per game,
had 40 steals and made 31.6% of his three-point attempts.
“We were never truly dependent on one person,” said
CCBC Dundalk head men’s basketball coach Jaron Taylor.
“But [Denzel] was usually that guy that knew what to do. He
had experience playing in the Maryland JUCO conference, so he was
usually able to step up to the occasion.”
Dulin was the Maryland JUCO Male Student-Athlete of the Month for
December and was named to the All NJCAA Division II Region XX
Second Team and All Maryland JUCO Conference Second Team.
He was also voted by coaches as CCBC Dundalk’s 2013-2014 Male
Athlete of the Year and participated in the Maryland JUCO All-Star
Game.
Dulin understands that the road to success is not often smooth and
easy. There are detours and obstacles that stand in the way of
one’s goals in life.
At an age when most teenagers are figuring out how to navigate high
school, Dulin (15-years-old at the time) and his family were
grieving the loss of his mother.
The fact that his mother was able to impart such wisdom before
departing has not since been lost.
“Of course she was a big impact on my life,” Dulin
said. “If anything, my mom taught me a lot as far as values
and being accountable as a man and taking care of my
responsibilities.”
And it continued with his brother.
Anthony Dulin said he is unsure what kind of man he would have
turned out to be were it not for Denzel.
“I give him a lot of credit,” Anthony said. “I
don’t know what kind of person I would have been without
him.
“Denzel helped prepare my wife and I for having kids. We
learned early about responsibility and how to care for
someone.”
Denzel wants to follow in his brother’s footsteps and have a
career in real estate after college.
He continues to build on the values his mother instilled, while
incorporating the life lessons he’s learned from his
brother.
On May 31, Dulin graduated from CCBC with an Associate of Arts
degree in general studies. Earlier that month, he signed a letter
of intent and accepted an athletic scholarship to attend and play
basketball at Bethune-Cookman, a Division I university in Dayton
Beach, Fla.
Dulin contributes his success – on and off the court –
to a caring family, working hard and staying optimistic.
“Of course when you lose your mother it’s one of the
toughest things and makes it difficult to stay focused on what you
have to do,” Dulin said. “So that was definitely a
tough time and with the help of my brother [Anthony], my family and
other siblings, they stuck by me and I was able to stay on track
and go forward.
“I would say, as hard as it may seem, stay positive,”
he continued. “It’s tough to stay positive, have the
right mindset, right head on your shoulders to go forward. But I
feel like if you can make it through [the death of a loved one],
you can make it through anything.”